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Any guy can get a good looking girl. Most guys don’t realize it, but dating a hot girl is not as hard as it seems. Once you figure out the game it doesn’t matter what you look like, what job you have, where you are from, or who you are at all.
We all have something inside ourselves to offer, it’s just a matter of laying out the good in the right way, enough so that the bad seems meaningless. Once you know how, charming the sox off any hot girl will seem as simple as riding a bike. For those of you who can’t ride a bike, don’t worry, this takes less effort.
The Rules of Charm, What Exactly is Charm
Okay guys, the biggest thing to remember when you are trying to score the hottest chick in college or anywhere else for that matter is charm. Being charming can help you win over anyone in your life whether it’s your girlfriend, your boss, your parents, or anyone else you want to appreciate you. The biggest mistake you can possibly make is to think that flattery is the same thing as charm. A persons charm has nothing to do with butt kissing and getting your way; a person’s charm is their allure. To charm a girl is to make her watch you, listen to you, and show interest in her.
Charm is a way of showing in interest with someone, but it is not the same as flattery. Flattery you do so that the other person will give you something in return, and charm is done simply to make the other person feel good and the biggest way to be a charmer is to learn how to make people happy and practice. Practicing doesn’t only mean on girls either, you should practice charming everyone you meet. This should help you distinguish flirting from charming. Think about what would make the other person feel genuinely good, and do that.
Charming a Hot Chick Means Confidence, Not Cockiness
Most guys cannot even bring themselves to talk to the hottest chick in college, let alone to charm them. The best way to charm her is to realize that she is just a person, no matter how beautiful this girl is she still has feelings, and you need to bring yourself back down to earth before you try to talk to her. First and most importantly, be confident. Being confident isn’t about being big and bad, don’t confuse confidence with cockiness. Let her know that you realize she is just another person, but she is a person that caught your eye. Think of yourself on the same level, and treat her as if you truly feel that way.
Let her know how you feel, but don’t scare her off. A girl is not going to be turned on by someone staring at her and drooling while they stumble up to her. Instead, practice with girls you are comfortable with and work your way up to the hottest girl on campus. Just practice being your true self and saying hello without spilling your whole heart out into a puddle in front of her.
What to Say When You First Approach Her
When you finally have the confidence to approach this girl, being silent isn’t going to get you anywhere. Keep in mind what your goal is in this mission. Do you want to sleep with her, date her, or even be in a serious relationship with her? The best place to start is a date. Maybe asking her out right away isn’t the best idea, but you have to get her to realize that you exist. Start with something small, like ask her a question. From the question, try to bring yourself to have a conversation about anything that you think she would know about. Keep your confidence and charm in mind, and the rest is easy.
The Actual Date
The first date should be casual, nothing too pushy. Asking her if she wants to meet you and some friends somewhere is a good start. Keep the date fun and keep yourselves busy, a boring date is not a good way to make an impression. Things like bowling, concerts, go carting, and rollerblading are great ways to keep the date fun and upbeat, and score the hottest chick in college. You have to remember no matter how hot a girl is, she is still a girl and it should take the same things to charm her.
After the date is over, remember to play it cool, tell her you had fun but don’t thank her like a dog after getting a bone. Ask her if she wants to do it again, and next time you see her around campus wave hi or say hi, but let her come to you.
